Dr. Laura Berman
Last night I had sex with someone I've been sleeping with for a while. He was doing everything right, but I could not climax (which is not like me). The only thing I can think of is that lately I've been masturbating a lot with my vibrator. Could that vigorous stimulation have kept me from climaxing with a man? Can using a vibrator have any impact on my sex life?
There is no evidence that vibrator use can desensitize a woman's sexual response. This is a common urban legend that has spread because of fear and ignorance that people have concerning female sexuality and masturbation.
Rest assured, masturbation is a perfectly safe and healthy activity — indeed, it is the only sex that is 100 percent safe! Furthermore, a recent study that I performed, in conjunction with the K-Y brand, at the Berman Center found that women who use vibrators have a happier and more fulfilling sex life with their partners than women who do not use vibrators. That you were unable to achieve orgasm during sex with your partner may be because you did not receive enough foreplay or clitoral stimulation. Remember, only 30 percent of women reach orgasm through intercourse alone — the rest need clitoral stimulation to achieve gratification in the bedroom!
Source : http://www.everydayhealth.com
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